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This post isn't going to be a long one as it can be just WWWWAAAAYYYYY to long and I have a small amount so this will be part one.

Clothes is a major thing for me... Well everyone really. It's not that hard to find them it's finding the right style that I like. As me I'm just to fussy. River Island and New look are some of my favorite shops in the UK, one reason is down to them having my size in footwear to start with. Unfortunately the biggest problem with role swap is you can change you gender but not your body. If I could it would be my feet first, as they're a size 9 (UK) and trying to get a good pair of shoes and boots, as well as the size its the size for the calf's that are a problem for me as most knee boots the calf's are like enormous on me, Think I'm like E maybe, again i'm not sure on those sizes or what they mean but I aint hell EEE, think when I bought a pair and I could it my other foot at the top and slid it down to the bottom calf of the boot not sure how I managed to do that but I did. Boots tend to be very tricky and they tend to sell out quickly for my size... Well at River Island they do.

This where the likes of Amazon and Ebay are your best friends as the prices aren't that bad either. On Ebay I tend to buy from shops in China and Korea for clothes and I look at footwear, I also look for the more expensive shops if I know that they will fit and I like the style. If its for a style that I want to try out as £3 for a top that I might not like or might even be to small isn't something that would bother me if it was wrong, if I do like the item and know I will like it I will pay more for the delivery.

I'm not a massive fan of shops like Miss Selfridge, I'm not sure why? I look at some of the items and think maybe when I'm 30 plus.

Lately I've been looking this ebay store
called rezzychen2009

http://stores.ebay.co.uk/zanzeamode/

I have bought things from here before as the quality is good and is a really good way to try a different style without paying over the odds for clothes that you might not like. They are based in China so delivery will take between 1-3 weeks, normally takes me 1-2 weeks for the item to come.

Another store that I've been looking at is ssongbyssong

http://stores.ebay.co.uk/ssongbyssong/

This store is based in South Korea and is like the more expensive and higher quality and does loads of K-Pop style fashion clothing so if you want that K-Pop look this is the shop to look at. I could easily spend all my wages here.

Yes Style is a shop that I will be shopping from loads in the near future, The prices are reasonable and have seen this site recommended on forums, they specialize on Asian clothing and have regular sales. They also cater footwear in my size also which is a massive bonus as even on ebay finding my sizes are a massive task, most places go to size below mine. :'(

http://www.yesstyle.com/

On another site that I'm on I get a few messages on the style of clothing (in a good way) is different and I do get asked about where I get my clothes from. I think it's down to seeing the women dressing the same all the time. Jeans, leather jacket and trainers, Don't get me wrong they do go together well... Except the trainers/ Converse style trainers. I try not to look the same, I know I'm going to contradict myself here and say that I wear jeans loads but that is due to me feeling comfortable in them, but its mainly down to my own thoughts of it hides my lover parts well even when tucked. My gender may change but body doesn't. If I could look in the mirror and think I want to wear leggings or similar clothing outdoors then I would, but even though I wear jeans you will rarely or if ever catch me wearing trainers. Think I have only ever presented female and wore trainers once and that was due to me hurting my ankle and was swollen. Apart from that I have always worn heels even in the house think my footwear with the lowest heel is 2.5 inches and highest is 5 inches and yes I can walk for some distance without stumbling over or without complaining. I admit I don't wear them very often as I prefer my ankle and knee boots that are both block heels. 2 1/2 inch for my ankles or my knees which are around 3 inchs... Think I wear my knees the most, both are from New Look.

The most recent thing clothes wise is a jumper that comes with a belt and a hoodie.
The Jumper that I have is very comfy for me and fits just awesome and keeps me warm. The belt that comes with it for me is a nice touch.

The hoodie is quite long which can be worn with leggings... Think I will stick with jeans one if I was to venture out or sweats for indoors... Which I don't have yet

This is the Hoodie I bought and love

To finish off  for this part one of clothing as I will be doing another one in the future. The next item of clothing that I need... Yes need is a onesie. With weather getting worse for rain and with it getting colder something that is comfy and keeps you warm is on the cards.
This onesie is one most fans of anime will know about or be able to know which anime it's from. The anime is called My Neighbor Totoro (Totoro is the name of the character). The animated film is by Studio Ghibli and  unfortunately that the studio will be calling it a day from the movie side anyways. This onesie looks cute and is also Unisex so any gender can wear it. People that love Studio Ghibli just need to have this in their life just look at those small ears and its cute little tail. Next month maybe but Jan it will happen.

One thing I noticed when my gender switches is how stuff like hobbies and interests widen even more. In this post it's about music.

My male side has a massive range when it comes to genres of music which will range to heavy metal to opera with Katherine Jenkins. Yes Katherine Jenkins. Think at the moment both my male and female side K-POP is the genre that I've been listening to the most recently out of 16 gb of memory on my phone Iphone it gets a bit repetitive listening to the same rock music music over and over.

As for my side (female side) I listen to an even wider genre which is black metal, extreme metal and loads more K-POP. It's some little things that make us both unique to each other. As male I would never really listen to the likes of cannibal corpse, carcass, Fleshgod Apocalypse, Dimmu Borgir and many more.

I've been listening to K-POP before PSY with Gangnam Style came along, this was even before I even knew about being Bi-Gender.  It started out being told about K-POP with a group called Super Junior with a song called Super Girl (You two know who you are). I just feel in love with it and was sooo totally over played and  still, think when I checked how many times it was played on my itunes and it has been listened to over 300 times and that is just using itunes software on my PC within the space 4 months and I have 60 GB of music on the itunes list.
Super Girl

I don't know why I really love K-POP so much, I know when I was younger I used to listen to Clubland a lot and used to have my own turntables and spend many hours at the tables, my brother was miles better than what I was. K-POP just kinds of reminds me of Clubland but better with better talent and genuine professionals that love the music. I did watch a small documentary on youtube where the likes of Super Junior, 2NE1, Big Bang and many more will spend like over 12 hours a day practicing there routines.

A song I love is BONAMANA by Super Junior. The music without the lyrics being in Korean alone sticks in my head. Why do I listen to music I don't understand? Ask people that listen to rammstien that don't speak German or even ask many people that love Gangnam Style all they will say is the dance and saying Gangnam Style. So whats the Difference? I just love the music.
BONAMANA

Super Junior aren't just the only K-POP band out there. How can I not mention the likes of Big Bang yes I'm a V.I.P, and have bought a couple of albums which I secretly stash for safety not to break the CD's But it isn't just the group I like, G-Dragon and Taeyang are my favorites in the group with G-Dragon being my the one I listen to the most out of the group with his song called Crayon. It's just one of those songs that will have you starting off nodding or moving your feet to eventually trying to sing to the lyrics, some is in English so you will be able to understand. I'm sure it would be a hit if it got played in clubs over here. 

Crayon

Taeyang for me is easy listening I listen to him loads when I want to chill

Ringa Linga

T.O.P is another one of Big Bang boys hes like the rapper in the group and his solo stuff is awesome.


I can't forget Big Bang that the lads are apart of, I love most of their music and could go a whole day listening to them.

                         Fantastic baby
                    















     
                                                                       This love

Speaking to other people that are Bi-Gender about what triggers their gender switch is music, one which I thought wasn't one of mine and now I can see why. Listening to 2NE1 is a massive trigger but a bad one as much as I love this group it can triggure my female side off but normally when I'm out of the house on the way back from work, as I can't just change and dress how I feel so I become trapped in the wrong body for a time where I have to change to genre of music.

2NE1 is the only K-POP group that I have on my Iphone due to it is slowly withering away, and it won't let me sync music to or from the phone the only way to do it is by restoring the phone to factory resettings every time. A good job I only use it as a mp3 player. I'm kind of biased when it comes down to one 2NE1 song which is I Am The Best. For me this song is about my favorite Wrestler CM Punk, and features the older WWE Championship Belt, Also CM Punk has always had this cocky attiude of "I am the best in the world." WWE Belt and the attitude of CM Punk... Sounds like he has fans in these girls, to bad he walked out from the WWE earlier this year.
CM Punk at the time when I started watching wrestling held the WWE Championship and held it for 434 days and is the 6th longest serving champion and the the longest in the modern era. I like him as his personal life was similar to mine when I was younger and his beliefs are also similar, But I will leave that for a future post. 
I Am The Best
Fire (If I had to be honest my favorite song by 2NE1)

Apart from the language being different the music it's self isn't but then Gangnam style ended up being a big hit, I'm kind of glad I heard Gangnam style before it became popular think it was at 5k views when I first heard it as one of my friends came round and saw it as a comedy song and we laughed so much at the video when that guy was on the floor in the lift as PHY was swinging his crotch area away about him. The biggest Genre that I listen to male or now female has to be rock/metal which has I've been listening to since I was 11/12 to the likes of Korn, Blink 182, New Found Glory, Foo Fighters, My Chemical Romance, Finch, slipknot, Real Big Fish, wheatus, Rancid, Green Day with Bad Religion (found them by playing Tony Hawk Underground 2) these are to naming some of the vast list I have 40gb of rock/metal etc alone. Might be nothing to people out their but try fitting that onto a 16gb iphone by rating songs that takes 3 weeks its a lot.

I used to watch a channel on Sky called P-Rock I used to watch it every day I could till it finished broadcasting.

We all have secrets that we don't want to share
      All American Rejects - Dirty Little Secret 

Blink 182 - The Rock Show
I really love My Chemical Romance m/f
                                                                         My Chemical Romance - Helena 

Everybody that likes rockKnows these
System Of A down - Chop Suey
These are still going                                                                 Finch- Letters To You
The Offspring - I Want You Bad
sure it came out in 1991 it still get played

Had to leave one of my best songs out of these to last, one that captivated so many people and no matter which night club you go to that plays rock/metal it will get played... Sometimes more than once and it will always get people on the dance floor, from a mosh pit to people bring out the air guitars, dancing like chickens on crack and people just trying to move there feet and nothing else as fast as possibly can, this song is a pure Gem
Linkin Park - In The End


That is part one of music as it's a massive subject that would go one for ever and cover most of every genre that is going. The next music topic will feature other genres from metal to Visual Kei Bands such as Slipknot, Cannibal Corpse, Iron Maiden, Metallica, Bullet For My Valentine, Versailles, Malice Mizer, The Gazette and many more.

Will leave you with on of my favorite mosh pit songs from the days I used to go to a nightclub under 18's called kaff. (Many people spell it and say it in different ways)